GitHub Actions: Update action versions to avoid node:16 warnings (#13453)

Note 16 is now EOL, so old GitHub Actions that use node 16 now triggers a warning.

This updates all existing workflows except `dwieeb/needs-reply` to their latest versions.

.github/workflows/close-stale-feature-requests.yml

@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ jobs:
       issues: write
       pull-requests: write
     steps:
-      - uses: actions/stale@v6
+      - uses: actions/stale@v9
         with:
           days-before-close: 14
           days-before-stale: 90

.github/workflows/close-stale-prs.yml

@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ jobs:
       issues: write
       pull-requests: write
     steps:
-      - uses: actions/stale@v6
+      - uses: actions/stale@v9
         with:
           days-before-close: 7
           days-before-stale: 60

.github/workflows/labeler.yml

@@ -11,6 +11,6 @@ jobs:
       pull-requests: write
     runs-on: ubuntu-latest
     steps:
-      - uses: actions/labeler@v4
+      - uses: actions/labeler@v5
         with:
           repo-token: "${{ secrets.GITHUB_TOKEN }}"