Windows build: Add new function CHECK_HEADER() (#21191)

The current function `CHECK_HEADER_ADD_INCLUDE()` automatically defines
`HAVE_<HEADER_NAME_H>` preprocessor macros, which makes it difficult to
sync with other build systems. Specially, if some `HAVE_` macro is used
in the code and this function defines this macro but Autotools doesn't.

The new `CHECK_HEADER()` function behaves similar except it doesn't
define the `HAVE_<HEADER_NAME_H>` preprocessor macro.

This removes the following unused compile definitions:

HAVE_ARGON2_H
HAVE_AVIF_H
HAVE_BZLIB_H
HAVE_CAPSTONE_CAPSTONE_H
HAVE_CURL_EASY_H
HAVE_DB_H
HAVE_DECODE_H
HAVE_DEPOT_H
HAVE_EDITLINE_READLINE_H
HAVE_ENCHANT_H
HAVE_ENCODE_H
HAVE_FFI_H
HAVE_FIREBIRD_INTERFACE_H
HAVE_FT2BUILD_H
HAVE_GD_H
HAVE_GLIB_H
HAVE_GMP_H
HAVE_HTTPD_H
HAVE_IBASE_H
HAVE_IR_IR_H
HAVE_KECCAKHASH_H
HAVE_LBER_H
HAVE_LDAP_H
HAVE_LIBEXSLT_EXSLT_H
HAVE_LIBINTL_H
HAVE_LIBPQ_FE_H
HAVE_LIBTIDY_TIDY_H
HAVE_LIBXML_PARSER_H
HAVE_LIBXML_TREE_H
HAVE_LIBXML_XMLWRITER_H
HAVE_LIBXSLT_XSLT_H
HAVE_LMDB_H
HAVE_MBSTRING_H
HAVE_MYSQL_H
HAVE_ONIGURUMA_H
HAVE_OPENSSL_SSL_H
HAVE_PNG_H
HAVE_SNMP_H
HAVE_SODIUM_H
HAVE_SQLITE3_H
HAVE_SQLITE3EXT_H
HAVE_SYBFRONT_H
HAVE_TIDY_H
HAVE_TIDY_TIDY_H
HAVE_TIDYBUFFIO_H
HAVE_TIMELIB_CONFIG_H
HAVE_UNICODE_USPOOF_H
HAVE_UNICODE_UTF_H
HAVE_XPM_H
HAVE_ZIP_H
HAVE_ZIPCONF_H
HAVE_ZLIB_H

The following compile definitions are defined explicitly:

- HAVE_ICONV_H
- HAVE_MSCOREE_H
- HAVE_SQL_H
- HAVE_SQLEXT_H

Additionally, the `SETUP_OPENSSL()` function doesn't accept the 6th
argument anymore.

ext/hash/config.w32

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ if(X64) {
 	ADD_SOURCES(hash_sha3_dir, 'KeccakHash.c KeccakSponge.c KeccakP-1600-inplace32BI.c', 'hash');
 }
 
-if (!CHECK_HEADER_ADD_INCLUDE('KeccakHash.h', 'CFLAGS_HASH', hash_sha3_dir)) {
+if (!CHECK_HEADER('KeccakHash.h', 'CFLAGS_HASH', hash_sha3_dir)) {
 	// Should NEVER happen
 	ERROR('Unable to locate SHA3 headers');
 }